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Five Reasons Sex Workers in the US Should Care About the International AIDS Conference
1. Because this is the first time in more than 20 years that the U.S. has hosted the event. The IAC will take place in Washington, DC from July 22 to 27. The conference will feature both formal meetings and presentations (with a registration fee) and a Global Village with cultural and activist events (free admission). Interested in pitching an abstract for the conference or a cultural event for the Global Village? Learn more here. The main deadline for abstracts is February 15.
2. Because although Obama lifted travel restrictions against HIV positive people in 2009, there are still travel bans against sex workers and drug users. This means that people who have sold sex or used drugs, even if doing so is legal where they live, are not allowed to enter the United States.
3.Because the sex workers who won’t be allowed into the U.S. are counting on us to make some noise in DC. There will be an international gathering of sex workers happening at a hub conference in India, and we’ll be able to connect with them digitally before and during the conference to share resources and strategies.
4. Because sex workers are flagged as one of the key populations at higher risk for HIV transmission. The other populations in this group are intravenous drug users and men who have sex with men (MSM) – global health groups often problematically include trans women in the category of MSM. Some of our lives intersect with more than one of these categories.
5. Because on top of having our own problems the U.S. exports terrible policies and strings-attached funding that harms sex workers. For example the U.S. President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR), which funds international organizations, include an anti-prostitution clause in contracts with grantees. American sex workers must stand up to our government and denounce PEPFAR and similar policies that harm our brothers and sisters around the world. The IAC is an important forum for us to make our voices heard.
There is some organizing happening already around the conference, but the more the merrier. If you’re interested in submitting a proposal for either a presentation at the conference or a cultural event at the Global Village, be sure to do so before February 15. If you want to show up, demonstrate, and represent sex workers, start planning, and start talking to other sex workers who might be interested in going. If you’re never done activism beyond your city, state, or the U.S., the IAC is a great opportunity to learn from and interact with sex workers from around the world.
From “The Internal Clitoris”:
The scientific name for the external “little button” or “bulb” is glans. Not to be confused with glands, glans simply refers to a small circular mass. This little structure contains approximately 8,000 sensory nerve fibers; more than anywhere else in the human body and nearly twice the amount found on the head of a penis! From reading her work, it’s clear that Marie Bonepart mistakenly thought that the clitoris was completely comprised of the glans; and because it is super sensitive and all anyone can see of the organ, her confusion is mirrored by most women today. The fact is, though, that most of the clitoris is subterranean, consisting of two corpora cavernosa (corpus cavernosum when referring to the structure as a whole), two crura (crus when referring to the structure as a whole), and the clitoral vestibules or bulbs.
The glans is connected to the body or shaft of the internal clitoris, which is made up of two corpora cavernosa. When erect, the corpora cavernosa encompass the vagina on either side, as if they were wrapping around it giving it a big hug!
Near each of the crura on either side of the vaginal opening are the clitoral vestibules. These are internally under the labia majora. When they become engorged with blood they actually cuff the vaginal opening causing the vulva to expand outward. Get these puppies excited, and you’ve got a hungrier, tighter-feeling vaginal opening in which to explore!
The corpus cavernosum also extends further, bifurcating again to form the two crura. These two legs extend up to 9cm, pointing toward the thighs when at rest, and stretching back toward the spine when erect. To picture them at rest, imagine the crura as a wishbone, coming together at the body of the clitoris where they attach to the pubic symphysis.
What does all this mean? Well, for starters, we can finally end that age-old debate of vaginal vs. clitoral orgasms.
Lady parts are fucking RAD.
Agreed.
Anal sex is awesome! I’m sure not everyone loves anal sex or ass play, but a lot of people just think it’s swell and I count myself in that number. When dealing with sex and sex toys in the butt, there are a few things to keep in mind to make your experience as awesome as possible.
1) Find a good lube. Thicker lubes that coat and stick generally work better, though some folks really like silicone lube for butt play because it lasts a long time. If you’re using a silicone toy, though don’t use silicone lube. It will make your toy melt! Some good lubes for the butt (and anywhere else) are: Maximus, Probe Thick and Rich (also good if you need hypoallergenic lube), Liquid Silk, Astroglide, and Sliquid Booty.
2) Pick a toy with a flared base. This is key. A flared base makes sure you can keep a hold of your toy and get it out when the fun is over (in not so euphemistic language: so it doesn’t slide up into your rectum). Some toys are even more helpful and they’ll have a little hole for your fingers to hook into. In any case make sure your base is flared, it will save you a lot of heartache and trouble. IMPORTANT: IF SOMETHING DOES GET STUCK IN YOUR BUTT, GO TO THE EMERGENCY ROOM. Don’t be shy about this, they’ve seen this like a million times before.
3) Warm me up, before you go go. You need to get your anus all nice and happy for the fun to start. Massage your anus with your fingers or some vibration until it’s soft. Once your anus is nice and relaxed, you’re good to go. Remember that slow and steady wins the race so go slow here, especially if it’s your first time. Remember, ass play/anal sex shouldn’t hurt so if it starts to hurt at all stop and ease up.
“Don’t yuck my yum” is a phrase I first encountered in conversation with my fellow Sexperts at college. It means don’t hate on what I like sexually. With all the kinkphobia in the world, I think this is a good thing to keep in mind during any conversation about sex, public (like an open sexperts discussion) or private (like with your partner(s)). Respect about sexual preferences should be a universal goal. However, I feel like sometimes, especially in partnered relationships, there’s sort of this pressure to automatically fulfill your partners kink. If you don’t, then you’re too vanilla, you’re kinkphobic, you’re frigid, you’re whatever. In anycase, I just want to say this to all of my fellow kinksters out there: Just because you have a kink doesn’t mean you are entitled to have that kink fulfilled. It does not make your partner(s) a bad person for not wanting to take part in a kinky activity. Pressuring someone to take part in your kink when they don’t want to is sexual assault.
Kink respect is key, but it has to go both ways people. And all you other kinky people, don’t be scared to talk about limits! Stand by them, and if some asshole is telling you that you’re yucking their yum, then you can tell them to go fuck themselves.
eh trying to crosspost to my new tumblr but this got posted here instead by accident. But I’m vain and I love this post so I’m gonna leave this vintage post up for y’all to read.
Don’t use disposable pads or worse tampons (which contain bleach among many other harmful substances) or this may happen to you!
To prevent roving three year olds from getting all in your pads supply, and to help out the earth and save some $$$, go to this website: http://www.gladrags.com/
Your vagina, your wallet, the earth, and grown up children who won’t have to deal with the embarassment of pictures like these circulating around the internet, will thank you.
Exhibit A: Stretched out, hairy scrunchy. (No one likes that!)
Exhibit B: TIGHT, pristine scrunchy. (Perfect!)
The choice is obvious, and our hymen gel can help.
pfffffft. who uses scrunchies anymore?
In addition to being TERRIBLE for your vag, this stuff doesn’t actually tighten the vagina; it only makes it drier which makes it feel tighter to anyone doing the penetrating but also makes sex WAY less comfortable.
“Once again, I was lucky enough to help out with another review for SITWP. When the package containing the newest product hit my door step, I was already finding batteries for it. I received the pink Butterfly Kiss Dual Vibrator from Babeland.com…” (Read the full review via Butterfly Kiss Dual Vibrator Review | Sleeping in The Wet Spot)
I always hate the packaging toys like this come in, and I’m not too big on jelly and California exotics in general, but it seems to me that this shape makes 150% (or more) more sense than the shape of any rabbit vibrator. I guess that really depends on the anatomy of the person using it, but it just seems like you’d actually get dual stimulation from something like this rather than a rabbit that according to most reviews I read rarely work for anyone’s anatomy.
The things I think about.
Jelly toys are bad for you! Don’t use them! Cal Exotics aren’t too bad, some of their stuff is made in the US. But this design is getting a lot of use lately. unfortunately, I think most if not all of them are jelly.
A lot of times the package or a salesperson can tell you something about the composition of the toy, but here are some tips for telling for yourself if a toy is safe if you have access to a demo toy:
1) Is there discoloration on the demo toy? dirt permanently stuck to it? A lot of silicone toys can be lint magnets, but they can be easily washed, but jelly can never be completely cleaned, resulting in discoloration over time. If the toy looks a little greyer or browner than the toy in the box, steer clear.
2) Smell the toy. Does it have a chemical odor? Again, a few silicone toys can have a bit of an odor straight out of the package but it dissipates. If you find your toy has a strong, persistent, chemically odor, ditch it.
3) Feel it. How squishy is it? If the answer is very squishy (especially with a tacky feel to it) then there’s a chance that it has phthalates, chemical plastic softeners that have been linked to cancer, in it. Again, there are a few exceptions with “dual density” dildos that have a squishy outside and a firmer center. If it doesn’t advertize iteself to be dual density, then it is probably jelly.
4) Look at the color. Is it clear or jewel toned? Clear toys are a dead giveaway that it is a jelly offender.
If you can find the name of the material it’s made out of, edenfatasys.com has a fantastic directory of material safety here.
